MAN OF GOD, IT'S TIME TO WAKE UP EVERY DAY WITH A CLEARĀ VISION AND A FIRE IN YOUR HEART AGAIN!
For Christian men seeking to be generation changing husbands and fathers and powerful leaders in their home, marketplace and community.
Whetstone is a group coaching program that guides men like you down a new path to...
•Heal from the wounds of your past
•Set the intimacy and connection in your marriage on fire again
•Confidently father and disciple your kids
•Boldly build God's kingdom together in every area of life!
HEAL THE OLD WOUNDS AND CHASE YOUR NEW GOD-GIVEN PURPOSE!
You're life doesn't look like you thought it would...
•Struggling to stop the endless racing in your mind
•Unsatisfied but you don't know why
•Coasting in your marriage
•Out of energy to be the father you long to be
•Doubting if you really have what it takes
•Drifting from God
But why are you stuck here?
3 BIG REASONS WHY YOU'RE STUCK
WOUNDS FROM THE PAST
You've told yourself, "I'm over it. It's just water under the bridge," but you and I both know that's not true. You've swept the pain of your past under the rug pretending that it doesn't affect you, but deep down you know there's still work to do, healing that remains unfinished.
NO PLAN OR STRATEGY
You've tried all the life-hacks. You've followed random advice and read books but nothing has created the change you long for or given you the clarity you need. It leaves you hopeless feeling like a failure - like you're taking random punches in the dark at an invisible enemy.
THE LONE WOLF MENTALITY
You've believed that, if you just try harder, you can fix it on your own. Maybe it’s pride or maybe it’s shame but, whatever the reason, you haven’t reached out for help. You haven’t let other men into your struggle to offer you real support and accountability. You're playing the lone wolf.
Thoreau said it best,
"THE MASS OF MEN LEAD LIVES OF QUIET DESPERATION, AND GO TO THE GRAVE WITH THE SONG STILL IN THEM."
We waste many of the most important years of our lives, struggling in silence, unwilling to admit or unable to see that there is a problem. And when we recognize it, we are either too prideful to do what it takes or at a loss for how to fix it...
Just hoping that things will magically change in your life.
BUT WHAT IF...
•YOU COULD FINALLY FIND HEALING FROM THE WOUNDS OF YOUR PAST?
•YOU COULD GAIN FIRM CONTROL OF THE CHAOS IN YOUR MIND?
•YOU COULD LEARN A PROVEN FRAMEWORK TO LIVE WITH A CLEAR PURPOSE EVERY SINGLE DAY?
•YOU DIDN'T HAVE TO DO THIS ALL ALONE?
WHAT WOULD YOU DO WITH THIS NEW FOUND FREEDOM?
How would it feel to wake up every day with a clear and driving purpose? What would you give to revive the joy and connection in your marriage and confidently father and disciple your kids?
How would it feel to be free from porn and other dangerous addictions and have a system and tools that kept you out of these pitfalls for good?
Imagine your life set on fire for God again, surrounded by a brotherhood of Godly men!
THIS IS ALL 100% POSSIBLE FOR YOU
INSIDE THIS POWERFUL GENERATION CHANGING PROGRAM
In case we haven't met, I'm Aubrey
I'm a creative and passionate husband and a father of five amazing kids. I strive to follow hard after Jesus and be willing to say yes to him at any risk. God has worked miracles in my life over the past decade to heal me from the deep wounds of my past, lead me to deep wells of peace every day and cultivate boldness and confidence in his calling like I've never known before.
BEFORE TAKING THE LEAP TO DIVE DEEP INTO MY SOUL AND MY STORY, I HAD A DREAM JOB IN CHURCH MINISTRY AND I WAS MOVING UP... BUT I WAS SO BROKEN AND I DIDN'T EVEN KNOW IT.
You see, I know the deep pain and frustration of being fatherless… without a guide… and I stumbled through my own journey to become the man God made me to be. I lost my father in a tragic plane crash when I was four years old. And I was raised by an abusive ex-military step-father who struggled to beat back his own demons.
I know what it’s like to feel like you’re starting off with a disadvantage. I’ve been the man who just took shots in the dark because I didn’t grow up with a father figure who taught me how to process fear, failure, grief, shame and sin and build a hearty inner life or a healthy soul.
I’ve battled day after day with negative scripts and lies that play over and over in my mind not knowing how to shut them off. I’ve rehearsed my failures until they’ve nearly driven me mad.
I constantly second-guessed myself. I was unfulfilled and ground myself and my family to the bone. I was striving to do something meaningful with my life but I was hitting an invisible ceiling and couldn't figure out why.
SOMETHING HAD TO CHANGE!
I created the solutions I teach in WHETSTONE myself, distilled from the wisdom of many mentors and my own time with God. As I navigated my own journey of healing and soul-renovation, I quickly began to experience peace and was able to breathe again. As I implemented these systems and walked with the Lord...
•I FINALLY FOUND HEALING FROM THE PAST THAT I WAS SO DESPERATE TO BURY
•I FINALLY HAD CONTROL OVER MY MIND AND FOUND DEEP SOUL-REST AND PEACE
•I FINALLY HAD FREEDOM FROM SELF-DOUBT AND DRIFTING
•I FINALLY HAD CONFIDENCE TO BREAK THE CYCLES OF PAST GENERATIONS OF MY FAMILY
I FINALLY HAD THE CLARITY, CONFIDENCE AND PURPOSE I HAD BEEN SEARCHING FOR!
What about you?
Have you been longing for something more in your relationship with God but just can't seem to break through?
Lost the fire and purpose you used to have?
Are you feeling unsettled and alone?
YOU'RE IN THE RIGHT PLACE!
God has brought you to this moment for such a time as this. You are on the edge of a huge breakthrough and I am 100% certain I can show you the path to freedom!
BUCKLE UP MY FRIEND BECAUSE...
IT'S TIME TO BECOME THE MAN THAT CHRIST JESUS SAVED YOU FOR AND CALLED YOU TO BE!
The Whetstone Way
1. TOOLS
THE VITAL TOOLS AND KNOWLEDGE YOU NEED TO BUILD THE LIFE OF PURPOSE AND EFFECTIVENESS GOD CREATED YOU TO LIVE
The key to doing effective and lasting work is having the right tools for the job.
Unfortunately one of the downfalls of not having a healthy relationship with your father or experiencing abuse and trauma in your past is that NO ONE GAVE YOU THE RIGHT TOOLS OR SHOWED YOU HOW TO USE THEM.
As a member of WHETSTONE, you will learn the vital tools you need to sharpen your life in FIVE DISTINCT AREAS.
- SOUL
- HEART
- MIND
- STRENGTH
- MISSION
AND you will learn HOW to use these tools to hear God's voice, experience peace and healing and live with a clear purpose again.
QUICKLY LEARN HOW TO USE THESE THREE VITAL TOOLS
1. CUP+FILTER
LEARN THIS POWERFUL PRACTICE TO QUIET THE NOISE AND HEAR GOD'S VOICE CLEARLY. REMEMBER, THAT MAN DOES NOT LIVE BY BREAD ALONE BUT BY EVERY WORD THAT COMES FROM THE MOUTH OF GOD.
WIN THE BATTLE FOR YOUR MIND AND ATTENTION!
2. WHETSTONE WEEKLY CALIBRATION
THIS SIMPLE TOOL WILL QUICKLY ASSESS YOUR HEALTH IN THE FIVE DISTINCT AREAS OF YOUR LIFE AND IDENTIFY YOUR KEY AREAS OF FOCUS EACH WEEK. NO MORE WANDERING OR BEING BLOWN AND TOSSED BY EVERY DISTRACTION AND TEMPTATION.
STAY FOCUSED ON THE MOST IMPORTANT THINGS EVERY DAY!
3. STAY SHARP HABIT TRACKER
NEW HABITS ARE THE BUILDING BLOCKS OF YOUR NEW HEALTHY WAY OF LIFE. THIS SIMPLE TOOL WILL GIVE YOU IMMEDIATE CLARITY AND HELP YOU TAKE IMPORTANT ACTION RIGHT AWAY.
BUILD NEW HABITS THAT WILL IMMEDIATELY CREATE MOMENTUM AND FUEL YOUR NEW LIFE!
AND THAT'S JUST IN YOUR FIRST 30 DAYS!
2. COACHING
ONGOING ACCESS TO COACHING THAT HITS YOU RIGHT WHERE YOU NEED IT
THE RIGHT COACH CAN CHANGE THE ENTIRE TRAJECTORY OF YOUR LIFE.
I WILL GUIDE YOU STEP-BY-STEP OUT OF THE OLD RUTS AND ONTO A NEW PATH OF FREEDOM.
You’re trying to do something you’ve never done before... TO GO PLACES YOU'VE NEVER BEEN!
So naturally, you’re going to make mistakes. You’re going to second-guess yourself.
YOU'RE GOING TO BE DISCOURAGED BECAUSE YOU'RE AFRAID THIS WILL BE JUST LIKE EVERY OTHER TIME YOU'VE TRIED TO CHANGE!
But you don’t want to end up in the same place or worse. YOU DON"T HAVE TIME TO MAKE ANY MORE MIS-STEPS - SPENDING ALL YOUR ENERGY AND GETTING NOWHERE — like hacking away at an oak tree with a dull axe.
Your wife and your family need you to change NOW.
You want to be able to MAKE SIGNIFICANT PROGRESS RIGHT AWAY (like chopping down a tree with a sharp blade.)
That’s where I come in!
HERE IS WHAT YOU CAN EXPECT FROM ME...
1. ONE-ON-ONE INITIATION & QUARTERLY CHECK-IN CALLS
YOUR INITIATION CALL WILL SET YOU UP FOR SUCCESS AND MAKE SURE YOU ARE EQUIPPED TO MAKE YOUR FIRST SIGNIFICANT STEPS TOWARD FREEDOM FROM DAY 1! THEN, WE WILL HAVE REGULAR CHECK-INS AS WE JOURNEY TOGETHER.
2. CUSTOMIZED ACTION PLAN
THIS IS NOT A ONE-SIZE-FITS-ALL APPROACH. WE WILL WORK TOGETHER TO CREATE A CUSTOMIZED ACTION PLAN SO YOU CAN ADDRESS YOUR KEY ISSUES QUICKLY AND EFFECTIVELY.
3. OPEN AND HONEST COMMUNICATION
MY JOB IS TO BE YOUR COACH, NOT YOUR BUDDY. I WILL BE ON YOUR SIDE ALL THE WAY, ENCOURAGING AND EQUIPPING YOU AND LIFTING YOU UP IN PRAYER! BUT I WILL NOT SHY AWAY FROM TURNING THE HEAT UP ON YOU WHEN IT'S NEEDED.
3. COMMUNITY
FIND THE FUEL YOU NEED IN A DYNAMIC GROUP OF MEN
I HAD A YOUTH PASTOR WHO USED TO SAY, "SHOW ME YOUR FRIENDS AND I'LL SHOW YOU YOUR FUTURE." IT'S NOT JUST A SAYING FOR KIDS.
THE STATISTICS ARE A LITTLE DIFFERENT FOR YOU THOUGH. THE PROBLEM WITH MEN LIKE US IS NOT THAT WE'RE HANGING OUT WITH THE PARTY CROWD LIKE IN HIGH SCHOOL.
THE PROBLEM PLAGUING MEN TODAY IS THAT THEY DON'T ACTUALLY HAVE ANY MEANINGFUL AND LIFE-GIVING RELATIONSHIPS WITH OTHER MEN!
SO WE WASTE AWAY IN ISOLATION AND GET STUCK IN THE DOWNWARD SPIRALS OF SHAME AND LONELINESS.
AND THEN WE SHOW UP IN PUBLIC AND HAVE TO PRETEND THAT EVERYTHING IS FINE...
IF YOU'RE FREAKIN' TIRED OF BEING "FINE" AND BEING ALONE, WEARING THAT UGLY MASK...
TAKE ACTION AND FIND CLARITY IN COMMUNITY
1. WEEKLY MASTERMIND CALLS
JOIN A GROUP OF COURAGEOUS AND BOLD MEN ON A WEEKLY CALL TO STUDY GOD'S WORD, FIND COMMON GROUND AND COMMIT TO TAKE STRATEGIC ACTION TOGETHER.
2. GROUP CHALLENGES
EVERY WEEK YOU WILL TAKE INTENTIONAL ACTION TO BUILD A FIRM FOUNDATION AND ROCK-SOLID FRAMEWORK FOR YOUR NEW LIFE... AND YOU WILL HAVE A TEAM OF OTHER MEN TO ENCOURAGE AND KEEP YOU ACCOUNTABLE.
3. CONNECT DIRECTLY WITH LIKE-MINDED MEN
IN OUR PRIVATE APP, YOU WILL HAVE ACCESS TO A SMALL GROUP OF MEN WHO WILL BECOME YOUR INNER CIRCLE. YOU WILL NOT BE JUST ANOTHER NUMBER! YOU WILL HAVE MEN WHO KNOW YOU, NOTICE YOU AND LIGHT A FIRE UNDER YOU WHEN YOU NEED IT!
4. WIN AWESOME "WHETSTONE GEAR" THAT DOESN'T SUCK!
WHAT GUY DOESN'T LOVE COOL GEAR THAT YOU WILL ACTUALLY USE? YOU WILL GET REWARDED WITH THE GOOD STUFF WHEN YOU SHOW UP, ENCOURAGE OTHERS AND COMPLETE CHALLENGES.
It’s time to replace...
THE DEPRESSION WITH LAUGHTER
THE DRIFTING WITH DEEP ROOTS
THE AIMLESSNESS WITH PURPOSE
THE COLDNESS WITH REAL INTIMACY
THE GENERATIONAL CURSES WITH LEGACY
THE INSECURE AND WOUNDED WEAKNESS FOR HOLY SPIRIT POWER!
READY TO BUILD A LIFE OF FREEDOM?
BEGIN YOUR JOURNEY TODAY!
FOR A LIMITED TIME BECOME A FOUNDING MEMBER TODAY AND SAVE
1:1 COACHING
Work directly with Aubrey in an intesive program in addition to the group coaching.
$600 / monthIt's time to restore the intimacy and connection in your marriage and sex-life.
YES, you heard me right. We are Christians AND we can also talk about how to have soul-filling, life-giving, "can't stop thinking about it" sex with your wife far beyond your 20's!
•But you feel TRAPPED. You feel like you and your wife are at a DEAD END and you've all but given up on things changing.
•This is what drives men like you to feel ALONE and DISCONNECTED sedating your feelings with alcohol, porn, CHEATING or WORSE!
IT'S TIME TO STOP LIVING HERE AND GET THE FIRE BACK IN YOUR HEART AND YOUR BEDROOM!
TESTIMONIALS AND RECOMMENDATIONS
Aaron Allison
Lead Pastor - Christ Is Love Church - Hendersonville, TN
Aubrey has significantly impacted our church community through his leadership in worship, teaching, mentoring and training. I completely trust his integrity and competence to instruct our men about vision and practices to develop a Christ-centered family. He is not a theorist; I see him live out his teaching with an extraordinary family.
Ben Arment
Entrepreneur and Father of Five
Founder of Wild+Free and Dream Year
Living boldly as the powerful man God created you to be doesn't have to be a constant struggle...
It takes so much energy to cover up your past, to fake it and pretend like everything is ok.
It's like hacking away at life with a dull axe... you're getting nowhere.
But when you follow a proven path to freedom and learn a new operating system that works, it's like swinging a razor sharp axe. Your effectiveness goes through the roof and the right habits ensure that your edge stays sharp.
I WILL SHOOT STRAIGHT WITH YOU: IT'S GOING TO TAKE A LOT OF WORK, BUT ONCE YOU EXPERIENCE THE FREEDOM THAT COMES WHEN YOU ALIGN YOUR SOUL, HEART, MIND AND STRENGTH WITH GOD'S PURPOSE FOR YOUR LIFE, YOU WILL BE UNSTOPPABLE! IT WILL TASTE SO GOOD THAT YOU WILL NEVER TURN BACK!
You can begin a new chapter in your story...
STARTING NOW.
FAQ's
1. Will this program work?
I wish I could promise that WHETSTONE will work like a magic pill, but I can't. YOU are the only one that can commit and put the work in but if you follow the process and are willing to take radical action, you will see results (and quickly)!
2. Things are pretty hectic in life right now, should I wait for a better time?
There will never be a better time than right now. Either take the leap now or don't. Waiting for a better time just deepens the ruts you are in. Most WHETSTONE men have joined at inconvenient times in their lives, but they never regretted making the choice to do it anyway. WHETSTONE is designed in a way that allows you to build momentum quickly and helps you clear out margin in your life almost immediately.
3. What if I can't afford it?
The truth is that we invest in what we care about and we value most what we choose to invest in. "Where your treasure is, there our hearts and thoughts will be also." If you're going to take this seriously, you are going to have to make an investment that makes it matter to you. I want you to succeed and part of succeeding is giving your health and future and legacy the value and priority they deserve.
4. Do you offer refunds?
I do not. Don't commit to this unless you're ready to follow through.
5. I've tried other things and failed miserably. I'm afraid I'll just fail again.
You may have tried and failed many times before to break the cycle. But this time it's different.
Joshua 1:9 says, "This is my command—be strong and courageous! Do not be afraid or discouraged. For theLord your God is with you wherever you go.”
His will and plans will be accomplished. The current of all of creation is running toward that end. When you walk in the way that God has called you, when you align your life with his purpose, it's like jumping into that river. There is a power there that you can neither create or contain. He will accomplish his good, pleasing and perfect will in you and through you.
6. How long does my membership last?
Whetstone is an ongoing coaching and mastermind group with no specific end point. While you can cancel at any time, you need to commit to at least 90 days at the start.
